I had my first official pub experience yesterday in the little town of Cirencester. And it was different.
This pub here was like someone's house (in fact, for all I know it very well may have been). Just like a house near where you grew up where friends & family kinda come and go all the time as they please.. Carpet everywhere, what looked like a little living room with a couch. Wallpaper. A dog walking around. So when I walked in there, I got some pretty strange looks.. Just like you would if a semi-stranger just walked into your house to have a chat.
I ordered a Real Ale (see my review of Arkell's for a little description of a Real Ale) and just sat at a table. It was
completely silent in there.. No music, only a few people up at the bar - but nobody talking at all.. Complete silence, and odd stares at me. You seriously could hear a pin drop. I was starting to feel a little uncomfortable. I think I sweat some.
Finally someone asked somebody else about poker.
At long last: noise. Then silence again + odd stares back at me. I had to do something to stop feeling so uncomfortable so I asked them what kind of poker they were talking about.. Texas Hold 'Em: cool, my way in, since I'm from texas (even though I suck at texas hold 'em).
Then they became super chatty, super nice, and hilarious. It was funny, even the dog came up to me and had me pet him.
They wanted to know about my travels, where I'd been, where I was going.. They gave me suggestions.. Even invited me to a poker tournament on Sunday.
Very different than in the states, for sure.. Tough to get used to. I need to do that more often to brush off that uncomfort.
English word of the day: Carry-on. In the states when we say "Go for it" - ie "Mind if I sit here? Go for it." Replace with "Carry on!". "Mind if I sit here?" "Carry on!"
BrasileirosOntem eu fui para um bar em Cirencester.. Esse bar parece como uma casa (e talvez realmente eh - nao sei). Estava estranho - nao tinha musica, somente tres ou quatro homens, e estava silencioso. Todo mundo estava olhando para mim, quase que esperando para ver o que o gringo ia fazer.
Finalmente, um cara abriu sua boca e falou para uma outra pessoa sobre Poker.. Ahh, finalmente... Um oportunidade para falar com eles e terminar o silencio. E quando eu falei, eles estavam tranquilos demais. Estava estranho inicialmente, mas foi legal para entender a cultura aqui.